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Rosie the Elephant

January 11, 2008 · 3 Comments

Last night our book club met at Connie’s to discuss Water for Elephants, and as usual, her book theme treats were a real hit. What better goodies to serve than peanuts, popcorn, and cotton candy when discussing a book about the circus?

Well, actually the book was about the circus AND a lot more. Love was a theme. So were survival, cruelty, man’s inhumanity to man, and the importance of living one’s life to the fullest right up until the end…or into one’s 90s at least. That’s how old Jacob is at the end of the novel, and rather than spend one more day in the nursing home eating bland food and traveling basically from bed to dining room and back again day after uneventful day, he…well, why not read it for yourself to find out? He’s my current role model.

I could say quite a bit about this book, but I’m going to limit my comments tonight to Rosie the elephant. What a gal! Until reading the book, I never thought that much about elephants and their personalities and abilities, but now my eyes have been opened. As I’ve walked around my home today carrying out the mundane tasks of daily living, I’ve been pleasantly surprised at the number of elephants I have living (in a figurative sense) here. There are the three carved wooden ones that Dr. Ekechukwu brought me back from Nigeria that are perched on the bookshelf. Then there’s my little mosaic one that my son brought back from Spain; it sits on the window sill of the bathroom and gazes out at the openness of the backyard. On a cabinet in that same bathroom sits a tiny silver elephant that serves as a ring holder; it was a stocking stuffer from DH. Then tonight as I walked through the breezeway, I glanced a pillow recently purchased from the Red Door Thrift Store (love that place) that has elephants and zebras on it.

What I’m trying to say is that they are all special and that they all represent Rosie to me now. She was something! Although Rosie was funny and entertaining, she could be a force to be reckoned with. She was tough and endured much, and yet in the end she prevailed. If you want to know more, read this book.

Has anyone out there read the book? What did you think about it? Was Rosie one of  your heroes too? What about Jacob? Marlena? Big Al? Did reading it make you want to go to a circus?

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Words, Words, Words

January 11, 2008 · 7 Comments

Have you ever thought about how powerful words are? Short ones, long ones, complex ones, simple ones, slang ones, “foreign” ones, and technical ones can all affect us in some way. They can inspire us, soothe us, and even make us angry. I don’t want to get carried away with this tonight, but I did want to add a postscript to a prior post about my word believe and Connie’s word courage. Since that time, several friends have come up with a “word of the year,” and I think that’s exciting. Now if we can only carry out our good intentions….

 Anyway, I want to share a quick insight about my word believe. Connie gave me seven blocks, one for each letter in the word B-e-l-i-e-v-e, and I wanted to put them in a place where I spend a lot of time. My thinking was that glimpsing at the word from time to time would help me keep my resolve to truly BELIEVE.  So I took it to work. As I was placing the letters on top of the desk, I began experimenting a little and ended up with two reminders: Be and Live.  I liked both of those verbal prompts so much that I put the extra “e” away for now.

I want to BE and not just DO, LIVE and not just exist. How about you?

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